**, - Adam Up - Criticism To Develop and Grow

Published: Thu, 06/15/17

June #3
Edition #602
Hello and welcome to this week's edition of Adam Up
Hypnosis Weekly

The Hypnosis Weekly podcast returns this week with a very different issue. My guest is Melvin Marsh who hails from all the way over in Augusta in the US.

Melvin specialises in working with transgender issues and is himself transgender with a fascinating story that he shares very candidly.

It is a subject matter that has not been touched upon before on the podcast and one that I was really unfamiliar with, and so there was much to learn for me - and I hope you’ll find it interesting too.


Onto This Week...
Following the horrific terror attacks in Manchester and London in recent weeks, this week we have witnessed with abject horror the fire that engulfed Grenfell Tower in central London with a number of deaths resulting from it.

The eye witness accounts, the stories of the survivors and some of the stories about those still missing have been nothing short of heart breaking.

I vowed that I would not complain about anything in the days following this incident as I felt I had no right do so after this event. In the aftermath, the spirit of the community has been amazing and heartwarming, and I have made sure that I have held my loved ones tightly this week and recognised how utterly fortunate I am for every second I have with them. 

Events like these do tend to make us recognise the fragility of life and make us think deeply about our own mortality. Yet, we should not always need these shocking events to make us appreciate the life we have all around us.

Though it is quite unlike a lot of positive psychology methods that are so popular today, I wholeheartedly recommend using the Stoic process of negative visualisation to help with this all year around.  It helps us maintain perspective and truly value the life and love we have surrounding us, ensuring we do not take it for granted.  

Have a read and use this process: 


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Criticism
This week, I have been writing on the theme of criticism. Firstly, I wrote about how to deal with criticism, and how to ensure that criticism is something you treat as a resource and a way of growing and developing.

I love this quote: 

"You are a glorious, shining sword and criticism is the whetstone. Do not run from the whetstone or you will become dull and useless. Stay sharp.” – Duane Alan Hahns

Have a read of this article to learn how to use criticism to develop, grow and become better in a range of ways:
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Other Important Articles
I also wrote one of the more important articles I have written this year over at my blog this week. 

I encounter a trend, a proliferation of classic ‘head in the sand’ attitudes among hypnotherapists who fear asking for solid feedback, who take it personally instead of seeing it as an opportunity to grow, and who just want to crack on regardless, insisting that they know best.

There are many contributing reasons for this, but one big contributory factor is the very culture of hypnotherapy training and CPD (continued professional development) training courses offered – because they themselves do not offer or create a culture of wanting to grow and develop and instead offer up a singular, impervious to critique type of attitude that does no-one any good in the long run.

Many hypnotherapy training courses offered to the public these days are a single model, devised by the school founder and lead trainer. Some are excellent I am sure. Yet there is no critique offered. They virtually sell this singular model and extoll all the reasons that it is so good, but do not offer up the other side of the debate, or offer up potential criticisms of their model or favoured approach. However good the training is, the depth of education is always going to be lacking if there is not a transparent approach to what is being taught.

Schools, colleges, Universities will always offer up the stance of fierce critics as well as those supporting a particular viewpoint. Even if the teacher sympathises with a particular side, the critique of that side is taught and explored; this is quality education.

This is how a student learns, this is how a field of study grows.

When hypnotherapy trainings simply say “this is the way it is” and do not allow for any critique, it halts potential for growth and development and currently the field of hypnotherapy is held back by so many people doing just that. See this article to read more on this subject, I have lots to say:


Soooo…. The exciting news is that I plan to start teaching in some other areas of the UK and beyond. Before I started filling my diary with dates all over the place, I wanted to ask you all if you’d be interested in me running a seminar or course in your location? SO I wrote this blog entry all about it, if you think it might be nice to have me come to you instead of vice versa, then go and have a read of this article: 


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Social Media
This week, my social media output has been filled with
  • memes about hypnosis,
  • some photos of our puppy who has started hanging out in my office to cool down when the weather gets hot,
  • some pictures from my early morning runs along the beach in the sunshine
  • and a couple of memes that I’ll be using a lot in order to help people follow my output.
You can follow and keep up to date here: 

Facebook: /HypnotistAdam
Twitter: @AdamEason
Instagram: Adam_Eason 

Additionally, if you are a student, graduate or friend of my college, then come & join our Facebook group for hypnotherapists, it has some wonderful discussion on there: 
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Working One-To-One With Adam
For those of you interested in finding out a bit more about working with me one-to-one, here are the pages to go and do that: 

1. Hypnotherapy Sessions with Adam. 

2. Private Coaching Sessions with Adam.

3. Business Mentoring for Hypnotherapists with Adam. 

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Jokes And Quotes Of The Week
This week, I have some funny quotes of the week rather than just jokes or quotes, and all are in keeping with our theme of criticism….

1. “Critics noted Schwarzenegger's only previous government experience was serving as chairman of the Council of Physical Fitness, where his only responsibility was doing hundreds of jumping jacks he was doing anyway.” - Jon Stewart

2. “Honest criticism is hard to take, particularly from a relative, a friend, an acquaintance, or a stranger.” - Daniel Tosh

3. “For every action, there is an equal and opposite criticism.” - Steven Wright

4. “Full House was a show that was done for ten-year-olds. The critics hated it. They said terrible, terrible things about it. But it should have been reviewed by ten-year-olds. That's who it was made for. They loved it. And if they loved it, great. Why the hell does a fifty-year-old guy working at a big newspaper have to tell me I'm a piece of crap?” - Bob Saget
Meme Of The Week
 
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