I remember playing a game of snooker with friends once and one of my friends mentioned that I stood unusually and held my cue in an awkward fashion. I began to really examine what I was doing and started
playing poorly, confirming his suggestions. Later, my other friends all agreed that my stance and cue positioning was classic and ideal and that I had indeed been put off by a joke. He meant it as a joke, yet my awareness being forced inwards created a self-consciousness that impaired my performance.
If you are running, or swimming or cycling in automatic fashion, and you then start to examine in great
detail where you are putting your arms or legs, you can easily notice how you can become disoriented.
Have you ever gone into a room and noticed you had already done something you were planning on doing?
Making a cup of tea, ironing a shirt, for example?
You might start to wonder what else you actually do that you are not aware of.
Or have you ever noticed how difficult it is to do things in the same fluid fashion when someone is looking over your shoulder as you do it? Driving, typing or cooking?
These situations whereby you are engaging in a
behaviour that you do very often, without thought, can seem very different when you are being scrutinised and watched closely. Our unconscious, automatic flow gets interrupted by conscious interference. This initially seems like an undesirable thing to do and to therefore stop doing it. However, we can use this for great personal gain and benefit.
It can be used to interrupt and cast doubt upon unwanted
habitual thoughts and behaviours. Simply follow these steps:
Step One: Firstly, you need to know what unwanted habit, behaviour or thought process you wish to interrupt and ideally stop doing. With that in mind, take a couple
of minutes out to increase your awareness of where, when, why and how it happens. Do that by simply answering these questions about the unwanted habit, behaviour or thought process and being aware of the answers before you engage with the self-hypnosis process.
a) Describe exactly what you do, how you do it, and how often. E.g. How many times per day is the habit
done?
b) Describe the situations, people, events or activities which seem to trigger the habit.
c) What else do you physically do before and during the habit itself?
d) What emotions and physical sensations accompany the habit behaviour?
e) What does it feel as if you’re thinking during the habit?
Equipped with this information, you’ll have material to use with the following self-hypnosis session, and you’ll also be in a position to understand and be aware of the circumstances that precede the habit, enabling you to engage with the process more readily if and when it occurs in the future. Then, having ascertained the unwanted habit or thought process to overcome, move on to
step two.
Step Two: Induce Hypnosis.
You can do so by any means you desire or know of. You can use the process in my Science of
self-hypnosis book, use the free audio we give away on our website to practice or have a look at the following articles as and when you need them; they are basic processes to help you simply open the door of your mind:
Heavy Arm Self-Hypnosis Induction Method
Using Eye Fixation for Self-Hypnosis
The Chiasson Self-Hypnosis Method
Hand to Face Self-Hypnosis Induction
Using Magnetic Hands for Self-Hypnosis
The Coin Drop Self-Hypnosis
Induction
Once you have induced hypnosis, move on to step three.
Step Three: In your mind, start to think of typical examples of how we can suddenly become conscious of automatic, unconscious processes. You can use the examples I have given above for example, such as driving, cooking, writing, or creating when someone is on your shoulder scrutinising what you do, and you start to get hyper-conscious of what you are doing too.
You might even think about how natural, automatic and simple it is to walk down stairs, yet when you start to really scrutinise and analyse what you are
doing, becoming self-conscious about every single movement, it becomes far more demanding and even confusing.
When you feel aware of examples of this happening in life and have clarity and understanding, then move on to the next step.
Step Four: Now begin to think and
imagine that this naturally occurring phenomenon is a bit like having an external eye. This external eye has the power to disturb, interrupt and perturb automated processes.
You might begin to imagine it out beyond you in real terms, in symbolic terms, as a comforting presence or just have it as a thought. Choose whatever suits you best, but make sure
it is prominent and available to you. Notice the control you have over it, how you can avert the eye, and how you can also direct it to really scrutinise and observe closely what you are doing. When you have the external eye there and it’s role is understood, move on to the next step.
Step Five: With your external eye set in place, now let’s practice using it as
a force for good.
Replicate and imagine a typical scenario or situation whereby that unwanted habit, behaviour or thought process used to happen. Imagine that situation using the details that you wrote down during step one. Imagine really being in that place, seeing the sites, noticing who (if anyone) else is with you, hear the sounds, notice how you are feeling, be aware of the thoughts
you are thinking in that situation. Make it as vivid and as real as possible.
Move the scenario all the way to the point where the problematic behaviour would happen, or where the unwanted thought process would usually occur, or where the habit would start, then move on to the next step.
Step
Six: Just as the unwanted behaviour, thought process or habit is about to happen, turn the external eye upon yourself. Glare in on yourself. Make sure the external eye is glaring, scrutinising, inspecting and watching what you do incredibly closely. As it watches, notice (and consciously imagine) that it becomes more and more uncomfortable, awkward, and more difficult to do that old, unwanted habit, behaviour or
thought. You might even imagine the glare of the external eye like a spotlight (or heck, if you are a fan of Lord Of The Rings, it can be like the all seeing eye of Sauron, you know the one).